Top 10 Tips for College Planning – Part 1
First and foremost I want to relieve any guilt parents may be feeling by verifying for you that there is nothing in the Bible or the United States Constitution that says you have to pay for your child’s college tuition. In planning with clients, it sometimes feels like they are putting paying for college ahead of their own retirement. My wife and I are empty -nesters with 3 college graduates. From my experience of saving, incentivizing and spending on college, I don’t think there is much I would change. So here are my top 10 suggestions:
1. Put some money away monthly the day your kids are born. $100 a month into a growth stock mutual fund or a college 529 plan, can make a big difference over eighteen years. Investing $100 a month, with a hypothetical average return of 8%, would be worth $48,535, at the end of 18 years.
2. Provide incentives. I let my kids know in middle school that if they got a full ride to college I’d buy them a new car. It should be obvious from that statement that I don’t recommend buying your child a new car on their 16th birthday. You can put smaller incentives in place for grades and other college-resume building items that might lead to scholarship money.
3. Have a college reality check. I know some parents who have told their children, “Whatever college you get into, I’ll pay for it.” In my opinion, which is also backed up by a number of studies, unless you get into one of the top ten elite universities in the country, your future income potential is driven much more by the student than the school. Public universities charge a huge premium to out of state students. If you live in Florida, your tuition will be more than five times as high to go to the University of South Carolina versus Florida State University. In 2021 in-state tuition at FSU is $5,656 and out-of-state tuition at USC is $30,160. With all due respect to both universities, in my opinion, there isn’t a $98,016 difference for that 4-year degree.
4. Have a time budget. It was clearly understood in my house that college was a 4-year endeavor. According to the National Student Clearinghouse, a nonprofit verification and research organization, only 56% of students earned their degree within six years.1 Granted, it was mandatory to graduate in 4-years at the Naval Academy, but I was also taking 18-21 credit hours a semester (my sympathy for my kid’s anguish over a 15 credit hour semester wasn’t very high). My wife graduated from a civilian school in 4 years as well. I wanted it to be very clear. Mom and Dad aren’t paying for you to extend your social life and avoid the real world. You can take longer than 4 years, but our financial contribution ends there.
5. Have a total tuition budget. If you haven’t heard of the Benjamin Franklin method of making a decision, it’s when you list the pros and cons of each option you have on paper, then compare them. This is a great exercise to help your up and coming college student visualize their options. My oldest daughter was a classic example. There was an out-of-state private college, an in-state public university and an in-state private college. On a spreadsheet or paper, list each school at the top and along the side list all the factors you are comparing. The first should be the tuition, room & board, and other expenses. I then reduced those by the scholarships she received from the schools, independent sources and Florida Bright Futures (our state’s contribution for good students staying in-state). I also netted out money we had set aside in 529 plans, Uniform Trust to Minor Accounts (UTMAs) and State Pre-paid plans. Lastly, my wife and I had sent our children to a private high school, so we said we would continue with this expense for their 4-years. Subtracting all of these contributions to tuition resulted in the bottom-line net expense for each college option. The result was that in the case of the in-state public university, her expense would be $0. The out-of-state private college offered the most scholarship money, but it was going to cost her $2,500 a semester. There were a lot of other factors, including; class size, city versus rural, extra-curricular opportunities, total student enrollment, etc.), but the net cost to my kids suddenly became an issue they would have to wrestle with. They now had to question whether the value of the private university or out-of-state college was worth paying for. They were going to have skin in the game.
6. Have a school year budget. Setting up a bank account with ATM access at the college and depositing a nominal amount each semester is a great way to teach budgeting. It can be a few hundred dollars, but it provides your son or daughter with the opportunity to make decisions on going out for pizza, getting their daily coffee, or a school spirit tee shirt. If the money runs out quickly then their options become limited and a behavioral change takes place the next semester.